DELAWARE GUIDE
Surviving spouse planning in Delaware
What to know about survivor benefits, taxes and local resources across Delaware.
Begin with New Castle County Register of Wills: Questions
New Castle County's Register of Wills questions distinguish the personal representative from the process of opening an estate. The county also directs questions about Kent or Sussex County records to those counties. This Wilmington-area example is not a statewide filing determination.
Keep your questions separate from the actual filing: which office, which current instructions, and who is authorized to act? Do not send personal records to a directory or a general inquiry address. This guide does not determine whether a court process is necessary.
Sources for this section
- New Castle County Register of Wills: Questions(opens in a new tab)Last checked 2026-11-08
A question for Delaware Division of Revenue
Which Delaware final-return and fiduciary instructions should be used if income continued after the date of death?
Bring that question to a tax professional with the official agency instructions for the relevant year. The federal return, an estate's income return, and a state-specific filing are separate review topics; this site does not assume a state tax result.
Sources for this section
- Delaware Division of Revenue(opens in a new tab)Last checked 2026-11-08
- IRS: Deceased person and estate responsibilities(opens in a new tab)Last checked 2026-11-08
A state aging-resource contact: Delaware Services for Aging and Adults with Physical Disabilities
Keep Delaware Services for Aging and Adults with Physical Disabilities separate from the court and tax offices. Use the official destination below to ask which aging-information or legal-assistance contacts cover your actual county. Ask about scope and eligibility before sharing personal information; being a surviving spouse does not by itself establish eligibility.
A program directory is not a reservation, legal representation, or a promise of funding. For readers outside an aging program's scope, ask the court's self-help contact about other legal-information routes.
Sources for this section
- Delaware Services for Aging and Adults with Physical Disabilities(opens in a new tab)Last checked 2026-11-08
- New Castle County Register of Wills: Questions(opens in a new tab)Last checked 2026-11-08
Benefits and support alongside state questions
Social Security survivor eligibility and payment coordination are federal questions. Keep an SSA question list separate from the state paperwork. Older adults and their families can also use ACL's Eldercare Locator with their actual location to explore community resources; eligibility and availability must be confirmed with the organization.
Sources for this section
- SSA: Who can get survivor benefits(opens in a new tab)Last checked 2026-11-08
- SSA: Survivor payments and other benefits(opens in a new tab)Last checked 2026-11-08
- Administration for Community Living: Eldercare Locator(opens in a new tab)Last checked 2026-11-08